A Mother’s Love: Shaping a Legacy of Values
One of the greatest influences in Mr. Satpathy’s life has been his mother, Nandini Satpathy, a trailblazing leader and a source of unconditional love. As a prominent member of Indira Gandhi’s cabinet and later the Chief Minister of Odisha, Nandini was a force to be reckoned with. Yet, despite her demanding career, she ensured her family always came first.
“She was incredibly busy, but she never let that affect the love and care she gave us,” Mr. Satpathy recalls. “She taught me compassion, honesty, and the importance of integrity. These values shaped who I am today.”
Nandini’s advice often resonated with timeless wisdom. “She used to say that your words have a long-term impact. Speak with care and never hurt someone intentionally,” he shares. Her lessons extended beyond words; she believed in giving not just wealth, but time, attention, and kindness. “She used to say, ‘The world is full of takers. Be a giver.’ That advice has stayed with me all my life.”
Timeless Advice: Lessons for a Younger Self
If given a chance to speak to his younger self, Mr. Satpathy’s advice would be simple but profound: “Don’t take life too seriously. Nobody gets out of it alive.” These words, both humorous and wise, carry the essence of his life philosophy.
He believes that life is meant to be lived with purpose and joy, not weighed down by unnecessary worries. “When we’re young, we tend to focus too much on things that don’t truly matter status, possessions, or minor setbacks. In the end, it’s the people we love and the moments we create that hold the most value,” he reflects.
Another piece of advice he’d give his younger self is to avoid harmful habits. A former smoker, he admits that quitting only after a heart health scare was a hard-learned lesson. “If I could go back, I’d tell myself: never pick up a cigarette. Your body deserves better,” he says.
Love and Loss: A Testament to Resilience
Life tested Mr. Satpathy’s strength in ways few could imagine. The loss of his wife, after a year-long battle with ovarian cancer, was one of the most difficult periods of his life. “Watching her suffer and deteriorate was heartbreaking,” he recalls.
During her illness, he devoted himself entirely to her care. From administering IVs to managing her pain with morphine, he shouldered the responsibilities with unwavering dedication. “It was the hardest year of my life, but I knew I had to be strong for her. Her courage gave me the strength to keep going,” he shares.
Her passing left a void that was hard to fill. “I felt like I had lost a part of myself,” he says. But instead of succumbing to despair, he chose to honor her memory by living the life they had envisioned together.
Overcoming such immense loss wasn’t easy, but Mr. Satpathy found ways to heal. “I realized that life doesn’t stop for anyone, and I had to find a way to move forward,” he says. He leaned on the lessons his mother had taught him: to be resilient, to give freely, and to find joy in the small things.
Cooking became a therapeutic activity for him, a way to channel his emotions into something positive. “Every dish I make is a tribute to her. She loved food, and knowing that my cooking brings joy to others keeps me connected to her,” he says.
Singing also played a crucial role in his healing. Music, which had been a part of his life since childhood, became a source of solace. “Singing makes me feel alive. It reminds me of the happier times and gives me a sense of liberation,” he shares.
A Life Full of Joy and New Possibilities
Today, Mr. Naanu Satpathy leads a fulfilling life, finding joy in hobbies that keep him connected to his passions and loved ones. Cooking has become one of his favorite activities, a skill he honed after turning 70. He enjoys preparing gourmet non-vegetarian dishes like mutton curries and keema, finding the process both engaging and rewarding. “It’s not just about the food; it’s about the smiles it brings to the people I care about,” he says. Cooking is a way for him to express love and keep alive the cherished memory of his late wife, who also had a deep appreciation for good food.
Singing is another passion that brings immense happiness to Mr. Satpathy. It is more than a hobby; it’s a source of liberation and a connection to his roots. Inspired by his father’s love for music, he often sings Bollywood songs, using YouTube karaoke tracks to recreate melodies from his youth. Despite health challenges that sometimes affect his breath, he adjusts his scale and continues to sing with enthusiasm. “When I sing, I feel a deep sense of peace and freedom. It’s like reliving the happiest moments of my life,” he shares. His music not only uplifts his spirits but also serves as a bridge to connect with family and friends who eagerly listen to his recordings.
While Mr. Satpathy finds joy in these pursuits, he dreams of learning to play the keyboard, seeing it as another way to channel his creativity. “I have a keyboard at home, and someday I’ll take the time to learn it properly,” he says, his voice tinged with hope and excitement for the possibilities that lie ahead.
Through his incredible journey, Mr. Satpathy has gained wisdom that resonates deeply. He believes in valuing relationships, cherishing the people who bring meaning to life, and always treating others with respect. “Kindness and dignity cost nothing but can transform lives,” he says. His resilience has taught him to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, while his curiosity keeps him discovering new joys, even later in life. Above all, he finds happiness in the simplest of things—a shared meal, a heartfelt conversation, or the music of a cherished song.
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