Today’s grandparent is no longer confined to rocking chairs and knitting needles. You’re just as likely to be learning WhatsApp as you are telling bedtime stories. But in a world of screen time, busy schedules, and changing family dynamics, bonding with your grandkids may require a little extra thought — and a lot of heart.
The good news? You don’t need to compete with technology. You just need to be real, be present, and be open.
1. Share Your Stories — And Listen to Theirs
Children love stories — not just the ones in books, but the ones about you. Share tales from your childhood, how you met their grandparent, or how life was before smartphones. Let them see your journey not as history, but as a living bridge.
But equally important: ask them about their world. What games do they play? What’s trending at school? What are their dreams?
Connection starts with curiosity.
2. Be the Keeper of Family Traditions (Or Start New Ones)
Whether it’s a Sunday dosa breakfast, a yearly Diwali card-making session, or a bedtime lullaby in your mother tongue — these small rituals become lifelong memories.
And don’t be afraid to start new ones: movie night every first Friday of the month, silly nicknames only you two use, or “Ask Anything” days where your grandchild gets to ask you absolutely anything.
3. Go Digital (Yes, You Can!)
Video calls, voice notes, fun selfies — the digital world is how many grandkids connect. Learn enough to show up where they are. You don’t need to become tech-savvy overnight, just interested enough to be part of their world.
Even something as simple as sending a good morning sticker or sharing a meme can create joy and connection.
4. Make Time for Just the Two of You
In busy households, one-on-one time is rare. Offer to walk them to the bus stop, bake a snack together, or go on a small errand. These low-pressure moments often lead to the best conversations.
Bonding doesn’t require grand gestures — just undivided attention.
5. Be Their Safe Space
Grandchildren need a confidant who listens without judging. Be that person. Let them know you’re there — not to correct, but to support. Your unconditional love can be their anchor through life’s storms.
Conclusion
At Sukoon Unlimited, we honour the evolving role of grandparents. Through interactive events, bonding activities, and storytelling circles, we help you deepen your connection with the next generation while staying true to your own values and wisdom.
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